A Few Notes on Escalation

Go French (make out) first. Doesn't matter where you are. Just go for close.

If you are denied, don't fret and go for the neck and kiss her there until she's ready for a make out.

If you are denied again, don't fret, continue as normal, and try again later. If it's an issue, go somewhere more private when you do this, or make her feel hot first by physically teasing her with tickeling or making her give you a massage, and so on.

If you're still being denied, and she's obviously into you, ask her what's wrong.

This also applies to sexual escalation. Try, try, and try again with a twist. If it doesn't work, ask her what's wrong.

Communication is sexy. It will also make her trust you - and believe me, she won't go to bed with you if she doesn't trust you, so don't be afraid to communicate with her. If she's going home with you, and not getting naked with you - then you need to know what's wrong if you want to stop wasting time.

The part about not fretting, or making a big deal about being denied, is important. The maxime goes like this: "If you make a big deal of it, she will make a big deal of it." So don't make a big deal about it! Just continue as normal.

And remember: A girl expects a man to escalate. If you're on a date and you don't escalate, she will most likely feel very disappointed. She may even get down right angry with you, or show signs of passive aggressiveness later on. So go for close, dude! Always!